Check out your quiz results!

 

Your biggest sparkle stopper is…

The Rejection Infection

You have The Rejection Infection!

I know it totally sounds disgusting (it sorta is), but don't worry, by embracing self-expression and self-care, you can learn to trust yourself more fully and let your true sparkle shine!

You are a “yes-woman”. You’re naturally agreeable and easy for others to be around. Unfortunately this can sometimes lead you to feelings of insecurity, and feeling burdened.

Your best opportunity for harnessing more authentic fulfillment is to practice tuning into your own thoughts, feelings and emotions. This can help you own your personal power and strength.

With a little self-awareness and compassion you can heal your ailment and step into more authenticity, creativity and intuition in your daily life. 

Want to learn how? Keep reading.

 
 

Is this you?

  • You find yourself frequently apologizing.

  • Often feel burdened by obligations beyond your control

  • You feel uncomfortable when someone is upset with you - maybe even obsess over it

  • You go to the extreme to avoid conflict

  • Oftentimes you feel responsible for other people’s feelings



    Btw – if this totally doesn’t sound like you at all, you may want to review the other results to see which Authenticity does sound like you.  We’re all complex individuals and so it is normal to identify with more than just one ailment. 

 

The #1 way this ailment sabotages your authentic sparkle is by….

Keeping you in the shadows of what other people want and expect from you. This distances you from your true authentic calling, which is a shame because the world truly needs your sparkle. Your big heart and need to please takes over your desire to fulfill your destiny.

 
 

Chronically living with this ailment can cause:

Just like any physical, medical ailment, when we leave things unchecked for too long, they can wreak havoc on our system.  I am not a professional medical doctor, and this is not professional medical advice (always seek your health care professional), but modern science proves that the mind, body and spirit are all connected. That means ignoring your truth (your authenticity) for long periods of time can actually cause you physical harm. 

Put bluntly: your fear of rejection is hurting you – mentally, emotionally and physically.

If left unchecked, this ailment may cause any or all of the following:

  • Procrastination

  • Discontentment

  • Anxiety

  • Depression

  • Dis-ease

  • Illness

  • Sleeplessness 

  • Digestion issues 

I know that was dark, but we had to go there.  I'm no longer sitting by and letting people believe that their hopes and dreams don’t affect their physical health and reality.  If you want to manifest your dream life, you have to first become aware of what’s keeping you from it. 

Perhaps now you can start to see how healing this ailment could literally change your life; allowing you to live your fullest, most authentic life.

 

Imagine…

..beginning passion projects without fear of letting down others expectations of you

…trying new things that lift your spirit, just because you want to - not because you have to do it to please someone else.

…finally feeling confident enough to go after that wild dream of yours, without wondering what others will think!

If this is something you’d like to experience more of, here is a simple art healing exercise you can try out:

  1. Buy an extravagantly beautiful notebook and a nice pen to use with it. Pick a color of pen that really lights you up - something beautiful and maybe even frivolous!

  2. Practice doing “Morning Pages” every day for at least two weeks.  When you first wake up in the morning; before you start making breakfast for others or checking emails from your boss, start by grabbing your journal and holding yourself up in a closet if you have to. Spend 5-15 minutes writing anything and everything that comes to mind.  You could write about your dreams from the night before, your fears, your angers and frustrations – whatever you want! The aim of this practice is not to make “good” writing. No one will see this journal but you. This is your safe space to vent.  Share anything and everything you need, but don't write more than 3 pages on any given morning.

  3. Do this every single day for two weeks and then review your pages. Are there any surprising insights you notice? Are there any action steps you need to take? Consider these questions and journal your thoughts.

 


By the way, you may be wondering who I am.. 

 I’m Haley Hoover, owner of The Sparkling Hippie, LLC.  As a Success Coach + Intuitive Artist, I help my clients redefine their life success by guiding them to their authenticity. 

Over the years, I have helped hundreds of women grow their businesses and self-publish their first books with fun and flow.  I’m also the author of three amazing journals: Brazenly Beautiful, Sparkling Success and Dream Big.

Additional tips for healing.. 

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